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Hang in there Annu ....................
ChrisAZ said:If you have no equity and no cash in anything then there is nothing to split. Make sure you have big loans on your vehicles or transfer the titles to somebody else and clean out the bank accounts. If you claimed income on your 2007 income taxes you might be screwed no matter how bleak things are this year. The judge will likely go by your most recent tax filings. If your income is truly non-existent and you do what I have suggested with any equity and cash, then you have nothing to worry about.
The most important piece of advice; Be extremely polite to the judge and stick only to the facts. Do not explain personal feelings, do not tell stories about how she did you wrong, do not stray from the facts at all. Show proof she took the $10,000 or don't even bother bringing it up. In court you need to be 100% composed and professional. Don't say anything stupid. In fact, the less you say except to answer questions the judge asks the better. If you aren't stating facts keep your mouth shut. Seriously Annu, you have said a lot of dumb things on this forum. I am guessing that is what will get you screwed in court the quickest. Keep your mouth shut dude. And last, make damn sure you have an attorney. DO NOT GO TO COURT WITHOUT A LAWYER!!!!!!!!!!!! You will be sure to get screwed that way. You will be in way over your head. Let your attorney do the talking unless the judge specifically asks you a question.
Seriously Annu, you have got to watch what you say man. Good luck brother.
ChrisAZ said:The judge will look at all of the facts and only the facts. Everything will be taken into consideration. I hope there is not a good reason that she got the restraining order. That could hurt you.
Annu Kumar said:The restraining order was DENIED
ChrisAZ said:Nice! From all you have said, it sounds like you will come out really good. Just don't say anything you shouldn't. I don't think you need to worry.
Venom Power said:If you're gonna get hitched do it in TX.. I never heard of spousal support there... That wouldn't make me want to get married anyway.
I often wonder :dontknow: what makes a guy want to tie the knot. YOU guys, and my hat is off, have done something I'm too :afraid:afraid of. Perhaps the right one :dancing:will come around and change my mind someday.