condolences?

[scoobert]

I would assume while you are consoling them, they will tell you. If they dont, I wouldn't ask...yet

yeah, i read the obit, it said nothing about the cause of death.
was thinking of asking the father, he is 60, and has a less sensitive view of death.

 

[Demon 8]

I am not assuming anything, just saying that if the family doesnt say "I never expected a heart attack" "Brain Aneurysm, who would have thought" Then you should keep yourself open to the possibility the person took there own life, asking in that circumstance would be uncomfortable to answer to say the least.
The first time you were told, you didnt ask what happened?

 

[scoobert]

I am not assuming anything, just saying that if the family doesnt say "I never expected a heart attack" "Brain Aneurysm, who would have thought" Then you should keep yourself open to the possibility the person took there own life, asking in that circumstance would be uncomfortable to answer to say the least.
The first time you were told, you didnt ask what happened?

was told they had JUST found her dead, after no contact for 3 days.

 

[Demon 8]

I'm not fighting you Scoob, just saying that she was young and if they havent said, its a possibility. How often are you talking to them. I would think this would come up in conversation.