Brite- I hear ya.
I just put the Hankook Ventus' (V-rated) on my daily-driver truck. We haven't had any rain since they went on, but on dry roads I'm very happy with them. They handle as well, if not better, than the stock Pirelli's. Cornering is improved, road noise is down a little, and I've lost about 1/2 of the 'chirp' when nailing 3rd. 'Chirp' from 3-4 is gone; in it's place is TRACTION!

I just hauled almost 1000 lbs. of lumber in the truck with no problems at all. Given- I didn't break 65mph, but I also didn't notice any "funny business"- front or rear- while driving with the wood.
If I was spending tons of time at the track, BFG's would be on all 4 corners. Those things are awesome on a nicely prepared track.
I think the biggest problem with tires for us is the limited selection. There are only 4 makers out there (BFG, Pirelli, Yokohama & Continental) that do tires for us that are W-rated or higher, and only 1 model from each of them.
Also, the higher the speed rating, the lower the treadwear rating. For racers, that's not an issue because they only do limited miles each time the truck comes out, and need the performance.
For those of us that are using it as a daily driver, a 320 AA treadwear rating...well, it sucks. LOL We'll be going through tires like Brad and Angelina go through 3rd world countries.
Uber-performance tires on tracks= good.
Uber-performance tires on city streets= bad.