Hi,
I am from abroad and buy lots of things in the US. Sometimes from members, vendors or other private persons (craigslist, ebay etc)
There are lots of scammers out there (nationally as well as internationally). I have also been questioned due to prejudices,
but if you have nothing to hide, you just show the seller all you have and how it could be safe for both sides to close the deal.
In your case the buyer seems to reserve all rights and power for his side....
You only use paypal with low amounts of money (up to 1.000$), on ebay or to do a pre-payment for goods with a higher value to place a reservation.
I would never trust someone to pay a full amount for a truck.
He is always able to open a case and as mentioned before
Paypal is a buyer friendly company. Why ? Just easily answered with
the question : who pays the fees ?
Just take 500 $ as a reservation and the rest cash against documents
or pre-wired onto your account.
You can even open an account for that, receive the money - transfer it to your normal account and close the other one again.
Hope all the advices help and GLWS.
Arne