Black1 said:
Oh, and I'll say another thing.... People can say what they want, Clint.... But, it took a lot of gonads to post a thread like this (that is, if you're serious about clearing the air). :rock:
It seems more often than not i am testing people,every action has a reaction.
Do i enjoy it the process,no
Is it necessary for me,yes
Too often in the past i put my trust in people that werent true friends,i was burned to a crisp ,in one instance(jail).
What did i learn?,that i really didnt know people like i thought i did.
1993 on a flight from ftl-las vegas i found a psychology book , i read it,didnt believe it ,then a week went by ,i was at a friends house ,him and his wife were aguing ,there it all became so much easier for me,i told him he was a douche for treating his wife so poorly and never spoke with him again.
Since then i have read a few more books,dont ask me the authors i'm terrible with names.
I know what personalities to steer clear of and which ones i mesh with.
Trust is a huge issue for me,i dont need to be burned again,so my true friends list is very small ,its rare to have another person added to it and it usually takes quite awhile,but i know there are a few guys in here that will most likely end up there over time.