Wife Left me

[Wifey]

That's a really nice score..................... You guy's are doomed to be together....

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I think so. We'll see how we do through the next few months, they are going to be the ROUGHEST of our lives. I hope we can hang tough. It gets very stressful at times dealing with stress

I do have a job interview next Wednesday. I didn't apply for it, but I took a county "test" in June and apparently this outfit contracts with the county. They share test scores and phone numbers :dontknow: . I'm nervous

 

[Wifey]

Jeff, hang in there - things will get better. Like they say what doesn't kill ya makes ya stronger. I agree with the guys, don't beg her to come back and don't let her see you mopin around. Get out, have fun, meet people, keep busy and move on ...... If it's meant to be you guys will work it out, if not there is someone out there for you who will be by your side forever ..... :rock:

 

[mauiSRT/10]

I just got in this thread, wow!!!.................Jeff you have 7 pages of folks whom have been there dude. Listen to the advice given. Notice how many others guys had a similar situation happen. Protect yourself. Dont think she wont take the cash. I have seen it happen too many times. Bank accounts emptied, home equity checks written for thousands, etc..... Dont beat up on yourself. You didnt do this, she did, she left. Now you need to focus on yourself. Time to start working out and doing stuff that makes you feel good about yourself. Have fun.......dont fall into the "woe is me" catagory.

Good luck, and keep us informed..........vent all you need.

patrick

 

[ILtemprd]

sucks bud..sorry.

 

[Big Worm]

not me

 

[Dave T(BADVENM)]

My situation isnt the same as yours but still ended up in divorce. My first one was 15 years ago and the 2nd 8 years ago. One thing I learned is that everything happens for a reason. The second thing is that if its meant to be it will be. I have an 8 year old son from my 2nd and he's the best thing that happened to me.

You'll get through it, learn things about yourself in the process and be better for it. You wont know it in the beginning but after some time passes it will just all make sense. Oh yah, the other thing I learned...it can always be worse! I dont worry about meeting anyone anymore, if its meant to be it will, otherwise I spend my time with my son and doing what I love...racing cars, whats not to love? Do what you love to do!!

We're here for ya!

 

[Dave T(BADVENM)]

I just finished mine up as well, came home from a trip and most of the shit was gone, totally blindsided, I would have never guessed it would happen. I can say with incredible confidence that it was the BEST thing that has ever happened to me, I thought I was in love, but I was fooling myself. I walked away and chose to protect myself financially and mentally. I cut off 100% communication with her and found peace and understanding in the Bible and Church. I met the person I will spend the rest of my life with about 6 months later and this is the happiest I have ever been in my life without a doubt. God works in mysterious ways. If she cant be there for you and talk to you about the problems, is that really someone you can trust and someone you want to spend the rest of your life with?! Never settle, and never stay with someone just because of the time invested in them and the false security. Although I should be better than this, I did take some enjoyment from when we (Megan and I) ran into her a few weeks ago; the X was looking rough, and Megan was looking hot as usual Best of luck to you in whatever path you chose, many of us have been there, feel free to vent, we understand your pain.
Justin

Which one did I meet when I was out with you and Joe last year?

 

[lightningKILLER]

Surround yourself with your friends. Be careful, and dont go out and get shitfaced and drive the 10. The cops wont give a **** if your wife left you. Good luck brother. I will pray for you.

 

[FlyingLow]

At least you didn't come home from a 6 month deployment to find some guy cooking on your grill and petting your dog.

 

[eddie102870]

At least you didn't come home from a 6 month deployment to find some guy cooking on your grill and petting your dog.

damn bro bet he was drinking your beer too

 

[ntw0rk]

At least you didn't come home from a 6 month deployment to find some guy cooking on your grill and petting your dog.

I only had to be gone for a week!

 

[DevilDawg3097]

Alot of us have been there and done that, and you ask why me, people are right when they say God does things for the better. But it is up to you to find out, one thing I dwelled on is the history but when you wake up out of the haze you will learn from the past and move forward a happier person. If you did not have children then this might just be a blessing for you. If you do then remember the nastier divorces get the worst off your children will be in the end. Just try and keep your mind off it when you are alone because then you will just sink further in depression, so don't become a recluse it not a good time to do that talk with friends and family, also pick up the good book will take your mind of the problem for a while. God luck and God bless. It always gets dark just before the sun rises.

 

[Begood]

Don't worry about meeting anyone anymore, if its meant to be it will, otherwise I spend my time with my son and doing what I love.

This is how I lived my life for the last 14 years, I figured I would be alone for the rest of my life. Then out of the clear blue sky I found someone that I can talk to all the time, about anything. That is something I always wanted to have in a relationship.

It will happen, you just can't force it to happen.


Bill.

 

[thjones3]

I can't add too much more other than to say I got that T-shirt also. I found out my 23 yr old wife was banging her 55 yr old co-worker . You just have to believe that everything happens for a reason and that there are bigger things for you on the horizon. You will learn so much about yourself in this experience. I can honestly say, without a doubt, you will be a better person because of it. Hold your head high and move on with your life.

"Life's simple, you make decisions and you don't look back."
-Han, Fast and the Furious: Tokyo Drift

It sounds really cheesy, but I have lived by this mantra since my divorce. Don't question yourself or wonder what could have been, it will do nothing but add stress to your life and that is not what you need right now.

 

[Venom Power]

Lots of great advice here Jeff.. I haven't gone through them all but I know these guys would not steer you wrong. And YES this is a terrific place to vent as we all care for one another as family should.

The common advice here is to have patience in the Man above, and that everything happens for a reason.. Just have faith in Him and leave the battle in His hands. I am a witness to great outcomes emerging from unexpected, unwanted experiences all too often. I owe it all to God. Time will reveal my friend, you WILL see.

 

[FASTFOOD]

5054860809 telephone # of my wifes single friend her name is missy shes hot

:needpics:


Good luck with all!

 

[JMB Justin]

This is how I lived my life for the last 14 years, I figured I would be alone for the rest of my life. Then out of the clear blue sky I found someone that I can talk to all the time, about anything. That is something I always wanted to have in a relationship.

It will happen, you just can't force it to happen.


Bill.

I had the same attitude, I wasnt in a rush to meet anybody, just was having fun with friends and family. Everyone could tell how much happier I was without her. Then I found someone just like you are describing, I can talk to her about ANYTHING without worrying what she will think. Absolutely no BS, I felt closer to Megan in 3 months than I ever did with Rebecca in 6 years. I would have never know this kind of happiness and love if Rebecca wouldnt have left. I know it hurts now, many of us know what your feeling, but it will get better. Keep your head up, talk with others about it, and trust in God.
Justin

BTW Dave, that was the X that you met.

 

[Annu Kumar]

You are responsible for your actions. God has nothing to do with what you do. So be careful what you do. Everything in life is cause and effect. Stop putting god in everything and be responsilbe for your actions. Thats jusy my two cents

 

[ccfeyh]

who in hear has been married succesfully to 1 woman in there life????? just curious

In April we hit our 37th year, been a few rough times, but wouldn't change a thing.

 

[Annu Kumar]

In April we hit our 37th year, been a few rough times, but wouldn't change a thing.

wow Congrats Bro:rock: damn i dont how you did it but Great Job