Worlds Strongest Dad

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Sorry if this is a repost..Make sure you click on video at the bottom and prepare yourself tough guys......

I try to be a good father. Give my kids mulligans. Work nights to pay for their text messaging. Take them to swimsuit shoots.



But compared with Dick Hoyt, I suck. Eighty-five times he's pushed his disabled son, Rick, 26.2 miles in marathons. Eight times he's not only pushed him 26.2 miles in a wheelchair but also towed him 2.4 miles in a dinghy while swimming and pedaled him 112 miles in a seat on the handlebars--all in the same day. Dick's also pulled him cross-country Skiing, taken him on his back mountain climbing and once hauled him across the U.S. on a bike. Makes taking your son bowling look a little lame, right?



And what has Rick done for his father? Not much--except save his life.


This love story began in Winchester, Mass., 43 years ago, when Rick was strangled by the umbilical cord during birth, leaving him brain-damaged and unable to control his limbs.



``He'll be a vegetable the rest of his life;'' Dick says doctors told him and his wife, Judy, when Rick was nine months old. ``Put him in an institution.''



But the Hoyts weren't buying it. They noticed the way Rick's eyes followed them around the room. When Rick was 11 they took him to the engineering department at Tufts University and asked if there was anything to help the boy communicate. ``No way,'' Dick says he was told. ``There's nothing going on in his brain.'' "Tell him a joke,'' Dick countered. They did. Rick laughed. Turns out a lot was going on in his brain.



Rigged up with a computer that allowed him to control the cursor by touching a switch with the side of his head, Rick was finally able to communicate. First words? ``Go Bruins!'' And after a high school classmate was paralyzed in an accident and the school organized a charity run for him, Rick pecked out, ``Dad, I want to do that.''



Yeah, right. How was Dick, a self-described ``porker'' who never ran more than a mile at a time, going to push his son five miles? Still,
he tried. ``Then it was me who was handicapped,'' Dick says. ``I was sore for two weeks.''



That day changed Rick's life. ``Dad,'' he typed, ``when we were running, it felt like I wasn't disabled anymore!'' And that sentence changed Dick's life. He became obsessed with giving Rick that feeling as often as he could. He got into such hard-belly shape that he and Rick were ready to try the 1979 Boston Marathon.



``No way,'' Dick was told by a race official. The Hoyts weren't quite a single runner, and they weren't quite a wheelchair competitor. For a few years Dick and Rick just joined the massive field and ran anyway, then they found a way to get into the race officially: In 1983 they ran another marathon so fast they made the qualifying time for Boston the following year.



Then somebody said, ``Hey, Dick, why not a triathlon?''



How's a guy who never learned to swim and hadn't ridden a bike since he was six going to haul his 110-pound kid through a triathlon? Still, Dick tried.



Now they've done 212 triathlons, including four grueling 15-hour Ironmans in Hawaii. It must be a buzzkill to be a 25-year-old stud getting passed by an old guy towing a grown man in a dinghy, don't you think?



Hey, Dick, why not see how you'd do on your own? ``No way,'' he says. Dick does it purely for ``the awesome feeling'' he gets seeing Rick with a cantaloupe smile as they run, swim and ride together.



This year, at ages 65 and 43, Dick and Rick finished their 24th Boston Marathon, in 5,083rd place out of more than 20,000 starters. Their best time'? Two hours, 40 minutes in 1992--only 35 minutes off the world record, which, in case you don't keep track of these things, happens to be held by a guy who was not pushing another man in a wheelchair at the time.



``No question about it,'' Rick types. ``My dad is the Father of the Century.''



And Dick got something else out of all this too. Two years ago he had a mild heart attack during a race. Doctors found that one of his arteries was 95% clogged. ``If you hadn't been in such great shape,'' one doctor told him, ``you probably would've died 15 years ago.''



So, in a way, Dick and Rick saved each other's life.



Rick, who has his own apartment (he gets home care) and works in Boston, and Dick, retired from the military and living in Holland, Mass., always find ways to be together. They give speeches around the country and compete in some backbreaking race every weekend, including this Father's Day.



That night, Rick will buy his dad dinner, but the thing he really wants to give him is a gift he can never buy.



``The thing I'd most like,'' Rick types, ``is that my dad sit in the chair and I push him once.''



VIDEO: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ryCTIigaloQ
 
Seen that and it put a big ole lump in my throat...there are some special people on this earth...
 
Makes me misty every time I read about those two.

If I am ever one tenth of the father he is, I will be proud of myself!!!
 
I am embarrased to say I never knew about this :eek: What an amazing story!! It makes me cry with Joy :rock: :rock: :rock:

Go Rick and Dick :dancing: :star: :rock: :rock: :rock:
 
Not a good thing to read when you are at work and get all teary eyed...

Amazing thread!
 
That was awesome Shawno :rock: My only hope in life is that my son feels that way about me, the way I feel towards my Father :D My dad was a Superman and a great human being....





Just like you are Shawn......You are a great Father !!!!!!
 
Awesome............................................. Just the very best.....

Thanks Shawn....................just awesome.............man...

SD
 
TheSickness said:
That was awesome Shawno :rock: My only hope in life is that my son feels that way about me, the way I feel towards my Father :D My dad was a Superman and a great human being....





Just like you are Shawn......You are a great Father !!!!!!
He does Mike and thanks. This time of the year I really do reflect back. Disabled children were a huge part of my life and for my parents, it still is. Thanksgiving and Christmas really center you on what's truly important in life with my family. Its unfortunate, for me anyway, that it really hits home this time of year when it should be felt everyday that I am thankful for a healthy child, especially from my background. I have seen the best and the worst of it all with disabled children. I did not post this to gauge yourself as a parent, he is definitely an exceptional man and I for one wish I had an ounce of his drive to make his child happy. I choose to believe all of you here are great parents. The picture below is my adopted brother Raymond. He is one of two disabled children my parents have adopted and have been with our family for a long time. They both unfortunately passed away this last year. Please take the time and just realize how important your children and their health is to you. All the other shit just doesn't seem to be that big of a deal. Merry Christmas to all of you.
 

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I have this strong urge to go wake up my son and give him a big ole fat hug....Thank you Shawn! I think I just realized something.:)
 
Wow!!!! The smile on Ricks face as they cross the finish line waving his arms in the air................dude thats it right there!!!!

What a great story. I need a box of tissues, it got to me from the beginning. Great post Shawn.

patrick
 
Thanks for the inspiration Shawn...really put's things in to perspective....
 

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