I have been thru this same BS for 10 years now and I have spent well over 10k in attorney fee's. My advice to you is to keep a log of everything that happens down to the minute. I did and still do it and every time I go see my attorney I hand it over and they love it. One good example is to keep all conversion to text messages then email them to yourself and print them out. Attorney's love that. Also if your state allows it, get a tape recorder and start recording her. In my state you can record as long as one person knows it's being recorded. It will hold up in court, I know bk I have used it several times in court.
She can not hold the child from you in any way. The papers say you get the kid and by her not letting you get the child she is rewriting the papers and trust me I have been thru the same thing and she can't do it at all and it will piss a judge off big time.
Don't know how your state works, but she can only ask for more child support every 3 years. She ask for more just bk your gone. She is just trying to piss you off and talk sh**it our her a**.
I feel your pain trust me, but hang in there bk the most important thing is your child. They are smart and they see what all is going on. My daughter is 10 now and she is starting to see that her mom is a big POS and I cant wait for the day when she says "daddy I don't want to go my moms anymore" God I just wish that day would come very soon.
Also your more then welcome to PM if you have any other questions. I get a little pissed about this subject, bk I think it's time the system change and stop looking at dads as more then a pay check. It was said on here that no one on here is an attorney and we might not be. But I will tell you this I have lived with this BS for 10 years and have been to court more times than I would like to say. So I know first hand what can and can't be done. Once again good luck!
