I really, REALLY don't wanna start a fight here...... Honest.
But as your above post suggested, her boyfriend must be a genius for figuring it out at 31 when it took the subject alot longer....
I'd just like to say that most of the battle of the sexes could be won by men AND women making better choices....... more careful decisions about who and why they marry....
I'm not trying to be DR. fkn Phil here.... But this is a two way street. If you make a shit decision when picking a life partner, husband, wife, ho, bitch or significant other, then you only have yourself to blame.
Men and women have been forever bitchin', complaining and blaming the OTHER fkn party for all their marital ills. When they really should man (or woman) the fk up, look into the mirror and blame THEMSELVES for their own shit decisions.
People marry for funny reasons. "He/She is a major hottie / Look at that face / long legs and big knockers / his schlong was e-fknormous / he made me laugh all the time"...... Sure, these are nice assets, but if the person you marry isn't a person of good quality, selfless, caring, dedicated, giving, kind AND has some nice visual attributes... well....what would girls like that wanna have anything to do with us anyway.....?
We need to take responsibility for our own actions, stay single or simply live in misery all our married lives..... (Oh yeah, you could get divorced every 6 weeks, too)
I really feel sorry for some guys....... OK...OK...... I really don't. It's yer own damn fault....
Much love and success to you all....
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