RAM SRT-10 VS LIGHTNING VIDEO

[FlyingLow]

Well, I don't post a lot, and not being a dominant voice on this forum, my words may go unnoticed.

Ron I don't think your posts go unnoticed. Sometimes you are the voice of Ford reason around here. We might not respond a lot, but they are noticed.

 

[Craig]

Ahhh it's all good brudda I guess I was just kinda reacting emotionally to the thread, I've just been a lil stressed as of late. Thanx for the kind words bro and yeah I guess I kind've agree we're beatin a dead horse here!!

Damn C....

I am so sorry things have gotten to a point where you would even think it is better to just read than to post...You are a solid cornerstone of this forum....and your posts are always enjoyed....look how much you just helped with the CF hood thread....

It is all good....everbody has made their point....looks like we agree to disagree and hopefully it all ends now with minimal feather ruffling...(is that a word?)....

 

[FSTJACK]

I know that when I have erred in judgement from time to time that I tend to get defensive.

I have to rember what is the real issue and keep that in perspective. Do I want to act like a mature human being and when I am wrong promptly admit it, or pound my fists on the arms of my high chair and try to make an indefensible position justifiable.

I also must remember that once I have stated my point or position that is good enough. i have stated it and should leave it alone.

How I deal with my faults is my business if they do not affect others. But there is nothing in this world that I do that does not affect someone else.
I must take responsability for my actions if I am to grow and mature as a human being. I don't usually want to do that, as it is unplesant to admit my faults to others, especially those that I perceive to be an enemy. Sometimes those that are percieved as enemys become so as the direct result of my inability to accept responsibility for my actions. I have also had many persons that I percieved as enemies (persons that I did not like) that I have stopped to take the time to listen to, and get to know, that have become lifelong friends.

I have two daughters 19 + 21 and unfortunatly when we left the hospital they did not come with a manual on how to be a father. I had to learn many things about parenting through trial and error. One of the most important things that I know today is that I can talk to them and they might listen and follow good directions. But what I do to show them how to live through my own actions is really the lesson they learn. They emulate what I do more than what I say, so I must lead by example. This is hard but I try to be the best father that I can be. And there are many times that I must suck it up and lead by example, by doing what I know is the right thing.

There is a good side to this as the longer I do this the easier it becomes to do the right thing.

 

[moparracing]

Well, I don't post a lot, and not being a dominant voice on this forum, my words may go unnoticed. However, since I have no reason to side with anyone, maybe my point of view will be viewed as neutral.

This poor guy is taking a beating for something that he feels he handled appropriately (telling his kid he wasn't going to race with him in the car); which by the way is a good thing. However some good points have been made, that should make us all think.

First, he did not race...he simply went through a "jack rabbit start" to 80mph or so. This is nothing different than what many of us do when we are getting on to a major interstate. And by the way, 70mph is legal in many states; consequently, many drivers get a way with 80mph.

However, the point of appearing to condone street racing is excellent. You may not be racing, but you are involving your child in the excitement of it all. He sees what his dad get's excited about, and at some point in time, he will want to emulate those actions.

At 38 years old, and a father of two, I have walked away from many situations that could put my family at risk. Admittedly however, I have also engaged in activity that I should have utilized more maturity. The fact is that we all make poor choices at some time or another, and hopefully--whether we feel we did anything wrong, we can recognize the negative consequeces, so that the next time, we are able to use better judgement. This is no different than anything else in life, there are many things that we can look back and say "I really shouldn't have done that". Life is a learning experience....just make sure that what you are doing doesn't put your life--or anyone else's for that matter, in jeopardy.

I loved your video, and do commend you on "holding back" with your son in the car. But I guess I do understand some of the other's concerns, even though I feel your intentions were good.

None of us like to be told that we are doing something wrong, especially when it comes to our kids. I know I don't. However, as men, we have this thing called pride that sometimes prevents us from looking at things from a clear perspective. I know that sometimes, regardless of how right I think I am, I need an opportunity to sit back and "digest" things, and hopefully become smarter afterwards.

Ron

all good points........ still, nice lightning kill.

 

[KRAZYSRT10]

"However, as men, we have this thing called pride that sometimes prevents us from looking at things from a clear perspective. I know that sometimes, regardless of how right I think I am, I need an opportunity to sit back and "digest" things, and hopefully become smarter afterwards."-----I LIKE IT!! I

 

[KRAZYSRT10]

"However, as men, we have this thing called pride that sometimes prevents us from looking at things from a clear perspective. I know that sometimes, regardless of how right I think I am, I need an opportunity to sit back and "digest" things, and hopefully become smarter afterwards."-----I LIKE IT!! I know I'm a newbie but I loved the video and I have felt the realization of power while having a young one in my vehicle(thanks to wife)....only a parent knows whats best...no judgement here!

 

[lightninquick]

the video it self was very cool,,,,70 mph is not that fast on the highway,,,,but on city streets its deadly

i think don is a very smart guy,,,im gonna pm him when i have a question about anything important:rock:

 

[z-man]

the video it self was very cool,,,,70 mph is not that fast on the highway,,,,but on city streets its deadly

i think don is a very smart guy,,,im gonna pm him when i have a question about anything important:rock:

it is always best to pm. if you dont you just get flamed if you arent in the clique or if your views are different from the clique.

 

[blackramsrt-10]

Damn i just wanted to post a lightning kill guys, didn't mean to start world war 3, sorry for posting it

 

[lightninquick]

it is always best to pm. if you dont you just get flamed if you arent in the clique or if your views are different from the clique.

lol,,,,i got real thick skin i can take it:rock: