Trouble in the home

[QuickSilver]

... ... ... Not wishing you any bad luck, but it happens.....

Quick

 

[kenposrt10]

Wally hit it right, I offered to try this, no go from her side, these same issues came up a year ago and I tried the same thing, she won't do it. We're trying everything in the book, because this is something I do not want, and I believe she'll regret one day...

Well sorry to hear that. Like everyone else has said time can help make things better. Right now it just feels pretty sh%&y. Hang in there you have a lot of support on here and stay close to your friends and family there.

 

[wesalbert]

I would advise you to stop right there, Not good on a public forum.

Just to make sure you got this point. This goes for anywhere on the Internet. FB, emails, whatver...
It can be used against you.

This goes for anyone with anything.

I saved that pic in the last post Thanks

 

[Outlawl]

SRT paid off, that's win.

Sorry to hear about the other tho,I have been there.

 

[SrtBrad]

Keep your head up high bro. Treat her as you want to be treated and all should be fine. Life is too short for BS.

 

[Psycho Mythic]

yo cody, sorry bud, but I got an ear if ya ever need it buddy, but you allready know that

hell far bro, jsut send her ass up here to me for a week or two

I'll put her ass thru sawyer camp, and I betcha before the weeks out she iwll be running back and a brand new woman

You knwo I care alot about both of ya'll bud, my best wishes to ya buddy

Thanks again everybody, I might be callin ya again this week big guy...

 

[JTS VENOM PERFORMANCE]

Thanks again everybody, I might be callin ya again this week big guy...

anytime buddy, no matter the hour

 

[05QCSRT10]

Does this mean you aren't gonna be on xbl:argh:

 

[JTS VENOM PERFORMANCE]

I only got a couple pieces of advice I live by buddy

one, never ever change for anyone, period, be yourself, Joanne married a man whore and well , I still is one

but mostly , dont spend years trying to make things work, most of the time in the end , it still ends, and you have spent years out of your life unhappy,
I would rather be alone and happy then spend ten years with someone and be unhappy, but that dont work for everyone either

 

[Ironhead]

Women ,cant live with them ,cant shoot them :dontknow:

 

[ntw0rk]

Sorry to hear that you have to go through this Cody.

I haven't met you, but you seem like a good guy. Hope it works out for the best. Trying to save the marriage is a great start, it shows that your heart is in the right place! Just make sure when the time comes you listen to your head, not your heart. All that shit about "the heart don't lie", isn't necessarily true.

Many here have been through similar (Some worse) situations, and with few exceptions, we have all come out better men for it. Learn from the troubles, it will help you immensely on the other side.
And ask most of us, and we'll tell you, "It's cheaper to keep her." Hope you can work it out.

 

[kennygene]

I went through all this before as well. In my situation, when things got to the point of seperation it was pretty well a total loss anyway. Not saying your situation is the same but it happens.
I went through a divorce (I didn't want), and got on with my life. I met another woman and remarried 5 years later. I'll have to say it was all worth it. All yeh, those 5 years in between were awesome. I didn't see anybody else while I was married or even while we were seperated (morals for me), but after the paperwork arrived I had some good times. It was really very worthwhile. I have now been married over 2 years and have full custody of my daughter from the first marriage, (custody was hardest for me).

My Dad's advice, "I never have known anybody who ever got a divorce and regretted it".

 

[VIPER]

Damm bro - i am speachless, i hope it works out for you,.. if there anything you need - let me know...

 

[Psycho Mythic]

Thanks for all the support, this is by far the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with, and it's gonna get worse before it get better. It won't be a battle of materials though, neither of us have that in us, I just pray that I don't loose my head in any of this. When I start feeling too bad/angry I'll just jump in the beast and go for a test drive...

 

[Psycho Mythic]

Does this mean you aren't gonna be on xbl:argh:

I'll still be on, is this Dylan?

 

[Psycho Mythic]

I only got a couple pieces of advice I live by buddy

one, never ever change for anyone, period, be yourself, Joanne married a man whore and well , I still is one

but mostly , dont spend years trying to make things work, most of the time in the end , it still ends, and you have spent years out of your life unhappy,
I would rather be alone and happy then spend ten years with someone and be unhappy, but that dont work for everyone either

I completely agree, even with the man whore part

 

[10banger]

Cody, I'm speechless right now. I can't say that I've been down this road before because I haven't. My wife and I have only been married a year and I'm a young buck so I don't have the advice that most do. However, if you need a friend to talk to or simply need someone to shoot the BS with, I'm here. I'm going to PM you my number, feel free to call/text anytime.

 

[SANTEEN]

Dude!!!! I would have never seen this coming. You guys look so happy together. Wow!! Hope it all works out for you. As much as I mess u, I really do respect you. You're truely a good person.

 

[Psycho Mythic]

Cody, I'm speechless right now. I can't say that I've been down this road before because I haven't. My wife and I have only been married a year and I'm a young buck so I don't have the advice that most do. However, if you need a friend to talk to or simply need someone to shoot the BS with, I'm here. I'm going to PM you my number, feel free to call/text anytime.

Dude!!!! I would have never seen this coming. You guys look so happy together. Wow!! Hope it all works out for you. As much as I mess u, I really do respect you. You're truely a good person.

Thanks Tim, & Steve, your an awesome guy to, cuttin the fool is just something we do good. As for my situation, I know it will turn out as it should and no other way, God takes care of his children, it's in his hands now...

 

[1fast10]

Hey bud you have my number, call whenever... I have your addy don't make me come up there!!!!:burnout:

I can tell you from personal experience that I went throughout the same thing ended in divorce. I dragged her to counseling and catered and tried but none of it helped she had her mind made up. that was that..

I went crazy for a little while but i didn't let it beat me for good. Actually the next girl that I opened up to and tried to date instead of just ya know, is the same girl I've been with for over three years now and we're engaged and have a house. She and her bringing me to church is the best thing thats ever happened to me. With you guys being a close second, lol

Love, Pete