so i used emory cloth and cleaned the crank up. took multiple measurements and all were within factory tolerances!!! i ordered a new balancer from dc performance. its SFI approved to 9000 rpms and very nice quality.
installation was a pain a$$. no auto parts stores carry a specific harmonic balancer install kit for our engines. what i did discover was one parts of an install kit works, the bearing+crank bolt= install kit:rock:
start to finish took me about 7 hours.(had to remove fan and shroud) its a very nice feeling having the truck back on the road!!
i know i got extremely lucky not having major crank damage. so everyone please check that your crankshaft bolt is tight next time you get a chance. it could save you a MAJOR hassle!!!