Wife Left me

JeffBoyette

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Came home, shit packed, colar on the dog. She said she doesnt love my anymore, and left. Hindsite is blind. I didnt see it coming. We were happy, didnt argue, still making love 3 times or more a week. But she left and is on her way to NC.

If your a praying man, say a couple words to the man up stairs, need comfort and peace of mind.

May not be around for a while. Not going to rush it but i may have to trade my truck in for a bike.
 
dam man ,,,How many years were you married? Sorry to hear
 
JeffBoyette said:
Came home, shit packed, colar on the dog. She said she doesnt love my anymore, and left. Hindsite is blind. I didnt see it coming. We were happy, didnt argue, still making love 3 times or more a week. But she left and is on her way to NC.

If your a praying man, say a couple words to the man up stairs, need comfort and peace of mind.

May not be around for a while. Not going to rush it but i may have to trade my truck in for a bike.

Jeez...that sucks... certainly a good reason to hit the GTG in Sept, and cut loose a little. Will keep you in thoughts and prayers.
 
Just give her some space bro, something set her off..


but when she gets here, I will turn her around and send her back:)
 
I'm very sorry to hear this terrible news. I hope things turn out right for you.

Bill.
 
Take it slow and don't berate yourself......

Nothing is as difficult as human relationships......

May Peace be upon you, bro.....

D
 
WILDMAN

The same thing happened to me 8 years ago. A friend told something I will never forget and it turned out to be so so true. THE LORD WON'T TAKE SOMETHING AWAY FROM YOU UNLESS HE PLANS TO GIVE YOU SOMETHING BETTER IN RETURN. It may not be tomorrow or next week, but it will happen.

I am happier now than I ever was with her.

Wade
 
bummer man, hopefully things will work out to whats best for both of you
 
Wow, sorry to hear that! I know it's not really much consolation right now but, He's got a plan for all of us. Good luck my man...
 
Stinker said:
Just give her some space bro, something set her off..


but when she gets here, I will turn her around and send her back:) <---except for this :p


WILDMAN said:
A friend told something I will never forget and it turned out to be so so true. THE LORD WON'T TAKE SOMETHING AWAY FROM YOU UNLESS HE PLANS TO GIVE YOU SOMETHING BETTER IN RETURN. It may not be tomorrow or next week, but it will happen.


Wade
Great advice!!:rock: Good luck!!
 
Stay around, keep us posted on how you are doing...we are family, we can and will help. Right now is the time to think and be rational and not emotional if possible. Several of us have been where you are. It gets better soon, but the pain is real, face it and it will soon be less.

Roy
 
trust me your not the first and definatly wont be the last person this has happened to. keep your head up bro. all women are crazy.
 
I went through a lot of pain when I was going through a divorce with my son's mom. It hurt so badly that I said I would never allow a woman to be able to do that to me again. Well after 14 years I have found a woman that makes feel like I never have before, so yes it does work out for the better. It just takes time.

Bill.
 
the biggest thing is to keep your head up and dont go off half cocked and do something stupid ,,all it does is add fuel to thier fire ,,,go find a club to join ,take some classes at a community collage ,,and always remember to take the high road ,,,dont go blubbering after her ,,,they love that ,,time heals all pain my brother ,,just keep yourself busy ,when it happen to me i though my life sucked and got to were i just did not care anymore. hope there are no kids in this mess ,even take a part time job to keep your mind sharp and moving ,,dont sit around feeling sorry for yourself ,,try to look at the things you can do for yourself now,,
i went in to the dumper for a long time then one day i met miss becky and i could not to this day understand why i let that witch get to me way back when ,,,plus get a good lawyer asap ,,,the fog will clear as long as you dont get crazy and do something stupid ,,they love that to so they can rub your nose into ,, as soon as i got invold with becky all of a sudden my ex was sniffing around again ,,i think just to screw with my mind ,,but i held my ground and shut her down ,,,now my life is good i have a women that her main priority is me and not the other way around ,,
if you start making a list of pros and cons of your old relation ship i bet you will find you have been jumping through hoops to keep her happy and around ,,more to come later form the love doctor ,,,HANG TOUGH HANG SMOOTH EVEN IF IT HURTS ,,,there is light through that tunnel
 
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Prof said:
Stay around, keep us posted on how you are doing...we are family, we can and will help. Right now is the time to think and be rational and not emotional if possible. Several of us have been where you are. It gets better soon, but the pain is real, face it and it will soon be less.

Roy

Right on, Roy.......

Embrace the pain and it will soon fade into oblivion.....

D
 

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