Please see what I presented to you in the science or religion thread.
I'm not trying to coerce you into anything,,,but simply trying to make your life better.
Forgive her for being an ass.
Forgive her for being too needy.
Understand that you being away is the reason for the problem...
Give her the benefit of the doubt. If she is so wrong you will come out the winner anyway.
Understand that you are apparently the smarter of you two, and it's going to be up yo you to fix this.
If you want her, keep her.
If you don't want her, then do what you must to improve your life and lifestyle.
I wish you the best, and hate you have to go through this.
Lee