Let me guess The dealer probably want to sell you whole harness if it's even available? Maybe some Viper scrap yard has the end you are after if Mopar no longer Has it. Did you see if Dodge has the plastic plug & pins available separately to build your own harness?
No that's what I was hoping to buy just the connector but they said they don't carry it. Maybe someone could get a part number for me
Connector will come with harness engine harness. What year is your truck/car?