Ken (NBT) is out of Surgery, Dawn back in the Hospital.

This is pretty hard to take...... Sorry about all the bullshit.....

We'll keep you both in our prayers, bro.....

Be strong and let the BS roll off...........

God bless you both....

Tim
 
Sorry to hear the latest bullshit...

We will keep you and Dawn in our prayers my friend....

Stefan.....
 
Thanks everyone for the prayers. You all have made a difference, for that we will be forever gratefull :eek:


Well the nuts and bolts of it (for yesterday, now today)...the MD took Dawn's PCA pump away yesterday morning, shortly after the billing call.
Rather nice to see some equipment leave the room for a change, and indicates progress....one would think...

The pump (pain medication) was removed around 11 am... no biggie..... the MD wrote in the orders for oral pain med's vs the IV Dilaudid.... again...no biggie...till the nurse walks in with a time release 5mg Oxycodone, and a Soma.....it was like giving her two aspirin.
Nevertheless.... she gives this a shot...
By 13:00 Dawn is climbing the walls in pain...can hardly sit still. We ask if there are orders for additional med's... there were...3mg of Morphine, and a Duragesic Patch.
The Oxycodone and Morphine were repeated again...still no relief....
After 13 hours of trying to get her comfortable, and with no luck... Dawn ask's the nurse... do I have do deal with this pain all night, or is there something we can do?
The nurse promptly replies..."looks that way doesn't it"
Dawn ask's "Can we place a call to the doctor for better orders??"
The nurse was not interested in calling the MD for additional order's to try and make Dawn comfortable... :dontknow: meanwhile she is just miserable.:mad:

So I ask... What were the definitive results of Dawn's scan (this was while the nurse was charting/reading the nursing notes outside the room)...she say's I can't tell you... or show you. I say fine...then you can take it in to Dawn to read her own chart... and she can read the results...she then replies...we can't do that either....the doctor has to write for it. What a crock of BS.
She then states the MD will be up after surgery...you can ask him to write for it if you want to see her chart.
In the meantime...we bear through 4 more hours of misery, and waiting for the MD to show up... notta.

So... to the hospital supervisors office I go, I explain....then in a meeting with the house supervisor, the floor charge nurse, and Dawn's nurse.... I proceed to say...
I only have one question....

What was the indicated medication and dose that Dawn should be on.... using the data that was logged on the PCA pump, over the past 5 day's of being on it?

You should have seen the looks...no answer.
Then I tell them this is the best treatment that you can give to your Nurse of The year (Dawn's accomplishment, from this hospital). This entire incident, had reduced a productive, accomplished, and respected peer of this community, to a suffering, upset, and emotionally whipped person... and your not willing to see that she get's comfortable... by placing a simple phonecall to her MD?
Let's just say....
In less than 15 minutes...MD consult was completed......with orders, and she is better managed...
Only 14 plus hours after the discontinuation if her PCA pump...

Then
I find out, (during the "Pow Wow") that Dawn's nurse spoke to the doctor when he got out of the OR, after we voiced concerns that treatment was not working...and never mentioned an issue's to the MD... so he did not know of any need to make any change's to the orders... so he left.

So it's morning now....and we just talked to the MD's...got what we needed, (Pain Management MD, home health set up, and appropriate meds), and were looking to get the heck out of here today.
We also find that the MRSA is in the bone ,and has caused Osteomyelitis in the affected vertebra. (We got it off the chart).
 
And they are worried if you are going to pay your bill?:dontknow:

I would think they better start worrying about a malpractice lawsuit.

Thoughts and prayers are still with you and Dawn. Praying that this ends soon for both of you.
 
Silverback said:
And they are worried if you are going to pay your bill?:dontknow:

I would think they better start worrying about a malpractice lawsuit.

Thoughts and prayers are still with you and Dawn. Praying that this ends soon for both of you.

Thanks John...
It's really frustrating to be IN the health care field and have to dictate her care from the sideline....

Regarding lawsuits...:dontknow: never been down that road.... for the moment, not concerned with it...just need Dawn better. I do have the doccumentation though;)
She will be scarred for life on her back, as a result of the event's to date.
This was taken last night...and on the 22nd of this month...will be 4 months since her surgery.
 

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I am so sorry to hear your wife & you are going through so much crud with the hospital. I am glad to hear you are bringing you wife home to get better. I agree with these guys you need to file a malpractice suit against the hospital after you both get setteled. My thoughts are still with you both.
 
Wow!

Kenny, I am glad that you will be getting her the heck out of there!

Did you file any formal complaints against the nurse that screwed up? She should be reprimanded for poor patient care, at least!
Seems their attitudes need a little adjusting. If I was in your shoes I would be standing on someone's desk until I saw some disciplinary action!! (Or they would be carting me off to jail!:eek:)

Hope everything works out for the better!!
 
Ken..I agree with getting Dawn better and then looking at legal options..In the meantime, do yourself a favor and document everything with regard to her care, conversations with doctors, and nurses, etc..This will help you out down the road should you decide to persue legal avenues..
Im happy that she may be coming home..thats great news for you both..Hopefully with the change in meds, and home care etc, she will be feeling better sooner..Good luck to you both..We are thinking of you guys..
Matt
PS..I gotta say this situation really makes me mad..Its just amazing that when people go to the hospital to get better, they are made to feel worse, physically and mentally. This goes for the patient and family..I feel for you both my friend...Wish I could do more to help..Hang in there..
 
Well... day 8 in the hospital...and tonight we get to bring her home.... finally.
The MD that was writing orders...is done.
Pain Management MD is doing all the writing, and I believe we have her on track. We have all the support adjunct's in place... home health, a walker, and the house almost set up for her comfort.

Her prognosis carries a certain risk, of not getting over this.... and with the Osteo...this can be re-occuring for the rest of her life.... I am worried about her, and the future is certainly....uncertain.

Everyones prayers are of most value, and I continue to pray that God gives her the strength to battle this, and will enable her to return to a normal quality of life.

I can tell you, that in a million year's I never saw this coming... . I thought that if it did, I had all the neccessary insurances if this happened.... hell I thought we were over insured....:dontknow: when her claim was denied (not significant enough of an injury).... I knew we would be running thin..... and could suck it up....but with this next chain of event's.... has led us down a road that I have never been before. Completely absurd that her surgery was 4month's ago this Sunday...and she is worse off.

We are overwhelmed (at least I am, I just tell Dawn everything is fine)... and with this ******* arm, I can't do any side work.

I just got back from the MD... shoulder looks fine, but I got at least 6 weeks of re-hab before I can get back to full duty... thank God I have sick time in my bank... so were not out of every dime.

The truck is on the chopping block, and as soon as Dad feels comfortable getting behind the wheel...will be tending to the remaining stuck lugnut on her...then she hit's the paper. Suck's, because I finally got all the remaining little extra mod's (gauges, shift light, a-pillar...ect) to get her done to my satisfaction.

Anybody want a 2004 with 12K on her, I believe I am going to start it off at 30K... whatcha all think? Too high? I can tell you this truck has only seen rain on three occasions... and those were at GTG's... she stay's in the garage the remaining time... so she s pretty clean.:D ;) :rock:
I don't expect too much in the way of offers now that gas is 3 bucks a gallon... but the old girl does get pretty good gas mileage.
I might have one of the guy's at work interested.. so we will see.
Dawn has been consistent with me about not selling it... but I see no immediate fix.... I can alway's get another..:dontknow: I hate to think about it.:(
Right now, I am concerned with Dawn, and her situation.... the truck get's put in the paper...when I get to it... in the middle of everything else I got going on...it will be a week or so.

Anyway... that's where were at... I get Dawn tonight from the hospital, and she can't wait to get out of there.... neither can I.
It will be an interesting weekend, I am glad Dad is here to help....I certainly the pain management schedule work's out, and we have an un-eventful, pain free weekend... (That's where the prayer's kick in;) )

I can't thank everyone enough for the continued support, and I don't know what to say about the thread Mikey started... I am embarrased, feel like a failure, and hope that this does not change the way people view Ken/NBT on this forum. :dontknow:

Bone, I certainly hope I did not piss you off in the PM's you sent me.... not my intention... but I was really trying to handle this myself.
Your a hell of a good guy. Thank you.
Jack, Shawn, I know what you wanted me to say... not sure why I couldn't get it out.... probably for the multitude of feeling's that I am experiencing now...since the post from Mikey.:eek:



Thanks everyone from the bottom of our hearts. Word's could not describe the grattitude that we have been so fortunate to have from the member's here.... it is truly amazing.

Mod's... could there be a merging of these post's, so that I/ we do not take away from the forum.... this is a truck forum...and I feel like I am diverting attention, that should be geared twards getting someone the information they are seeking for their truck....... instead of listening to our problems.

No time to sulk about it... I have to get to the Hospital and get the rest of the MD instructions, and spend some time with Dawn.

Thank you,

The Liebich's
 
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Kenny,

Anyone who would think differently of you because of the circumstances you are in now, is not much of a human being!!
I think we all know that you are doing everything in your power to take care of your business.
Don't let pride get in the way of people trying to help you out!
I, for one, do not want to see you sell that truck! And I will do everything within my power to help prevent it!

Hang tough Brother, we are here for you and Dawn!!
 
Ken we on the other side of the ocean are praying for you and Dawn....

Hang in ther my friend....you are one hell of a man....:rock: :rock:

Stefan....
 
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Ken no way would I ever think differently about Ken NBT! You are a best friend for life bro and nothing will ever change that! I am praying for Dawn to feel better and some relief! The thought of you having to part with your truck crossed my mind and like Scott I don't want to see that happen. I am here for you bro... and I will do everything I can for you guys including praying even though I don't do that too often. Stay strong brother!
 
Hi Everyone-NBT's wife Dawn here, I just wanted to say from the bottom of my heart THANK YOU all for the support and prayers for us during this time. You all have been a wonderful support system for my husband and a "safe place" for him to vent. It is nice to have "family". I am home form the hospital now and hopefully on the way to recovery-I have a strong will and faith, this will not bring me down.:rock:

Thanks to all of you and God bless
Dawn
 
Thats great news!

Were doing all that we can to help out.
 
As I mentioned on the other thread:

Ken and Dawn's address is :

Ken and Dawn Liebich
1004 Wellington Drive
Clearwater, FL. 33764

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