Very Sorry to hear this.
You may want to look into Hydrazine Treatments if you are only given Chemo and Radiation treatments as options.
Hydrazine stops the growth of Cancer. You wont find a lot of DR.'s promoting it though, unfortunately. Do some research on the internet. There are options that are affordable.
The Millionaire Bob Guciony (mis-spelled) wife had a very serious cancer and was given weeks to live. She found out about Hydrazine and lived for I beleive 6 years.
Hopefully your wife's condition is not this bad and is operable and complete recovery expected. I'm just putting this out there, as a option if you need it.
God Bless your whole Family.